Hexagram 31: 咸

Influence isn't persuasion. Persuasion is forcing your signal through resistance. Influence is finding the frequency where the other system naturally resonates. The telephone model: you can't make someone answer. You can call, but connection requires they pick up. What you can control is whether you're worth answering for—whether your signal carries something the receiver values receiving. Bell's first call was 'I need you.' Clear signal, genuine need, immediate response. True influence happens when your character itself is the signal. You're not trying to influence—you're being what you are, and those receptive to that signal respond naturally. Everyone else doesn't, and that's fine. You're not broadcasting to everyone; you're resonating with those on your frequency. Here's what the telecommunications revolution proved: narrow-band communication beats broadcast. Podcast beats radio. Email beats direct mail. Text beats phone call. Each refinement adds: more targeted, more receptive audience, less wasted signal. The goal isn't reaching everyone—it's reaching those ready to receive. Bell filed for his patent on February 14, 1876, and received it on March 7. Three days later, March 10, the first successful transmission. The system worked immediately because the design principle was sound: sympathetic resonance between two tuned systems. No forcing, no distortion, just aligned receptivity. The hexagram structure—mountain below (stillness, persistence) and lake above (joy, response)—describes exactly how influence propagates. You don't chase the response. You maintain your signal with persistence and clarity, and those capable of receiving it respond joyously. Watson heard Bell's call and came immediately because both the technology and the relationship were already tuned for mutual reception. Check your current influence attempts. Are you forcing signal through resistance (persuasion, manipulation, volume) or finding natural resonance (clarity, consistency, aligned interest)? If you're exhausting yourself trying to make someone respond, you're not on their frequency. Find a different receiver or change your signal.